Heal Myself

Mental Health Care

Mental health affects all of us, and can impact every aspect of our lives.

For those of us struggling with depression, anxiety, substance use, thoughts of self-harm or suicide, anger management, or other ACE-related conditions, mental and behavioral health care can be helpful in addressing these symptoms and feeling better.

You’re not alone. Reach out and get help at the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

While not something we talk about openly and often, suicidal thoughts or behaviors are some of the most common challenges associated with ACEs.

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Mindshift Recovery

The Mindshift Method teaches you how to retrain your brain and get—or stay—on the road to recovery.

Visit MindshiftRecovery.org to check out their free app, weekly community support, or their 8-week online course.

Our minds and bodies are connected. So caring for minds — whether by ourselves, getting help from friends or family, or working with mental health providers — can help with physical challenges too. Immune, inflammatory, cardiovascular, or metabolic issues may be related to toxic stress.

Changes in our emotional or mental well-being — like our mood, our energy, changes in our normal routines — are clues. If we experience those types of changes, it can be a good indication it’s time to ask for help.

A lot of us have found the best place to start when we’re struggling with our mental health is to talk to someone we trust, whether that’s your partner, friend, or doctor. The tools below can help you talk to your doctor, find a provider, and get support from people going through similar challenges.

Key points

Mental health is health

Nearly all of us struggle with our mental health at some point in our lives

Check in on yourself

Reach out and get help

Talk to your doctor

Limited access to mental and behavioral healthcare is a major issue in the United States. It might be challenging to find someone who takes your insurance (or accepts sliding scale for those of us without insurance), but it’s worth it. If you have a doctor you trust, talking with them is a great place to start. Here’s how you can prepare:

Think ahead

It’s easy to get flustered or overwhelmed when in the moment, so take some time to make a list of concerns you’d like to talk to your doctor about. How are you feeling? Is there anything worrying you? Has something big changed in your life? Do you have questions you’d like to ask? Write these down so you’ll have them to pull out when you’re at the appointment.

Make a list

Make a list of all the medications you’re taking.

Share your history

It will help your doctor to know your ACEs history, if they don’t already, and about any mental health history that runs in your family.

Be honest

Be honest about your feelings, emotions, and physical symptoms. Your doctor can help you the most when they have the complete picture. And if you’re not clear on something, don’t be shy about asking questions.

Get support

If going to the doctor makes you feel anxious, reach out to a friend or family member for support. Let them know you’re going and how you’re feeling, and check in with them when you’re done.

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Find a provider who understands you

If you don’t have a doctor right now, or you’d like to find a mental health professional on your own, telehealth may be an option to consider. There are more reliable telehealth options than ever before, and some offer sliding scale or “pay what you can” options.

Whether you find a provider on your own or through your doctor, it’s important to find one who’s a good fit for you and your specific needs. Here are five steps you can take to a good match:

Know your focus

Start by asking yourself what you’d like help with. Are you looking for someone to talk to? Are you looking for someone who has worked with people like you before? Are you looking for someone to prescribe medicine if need be?

Here’s a breakdown of the different roles in mental healthcare, so you can have a better idea of what you’re looking for. It’s also okay if you don’t know. The most important thing is to reach out to a professional to start the process.

  • Psychologists
    Psychologists help a wide variety of people with many kinds of challenges and problems. Psychologists can help people learn to cope with stressful situations, overcome addictions, and manage chronic illness. Many people talk to a psychologist because they have felt depressed, angry, or anxious for a long time.
  • Counselors, Therapists, and Clinical Social Workers
    These practitioners hold a master’s degree and use different therapeutic techniques to help understand emotions, and change behaviors and patterns.
  • Psychiatrists
    Psychiatrists are specially-trained medical doctors who can provide psychiatric diagnoses and prescribe medication.

Ask for recommendations

If you can talk to people in your community about mental health, ask someone you trust who they like or would recommend. You can also Google “community health center” to find one near you, and then you can call to see if they have recommended providers near you.

Shop around

Once you have a few options (or even one option), call to see if they accept your insurance or, if not, if they have a sliding scale that fits your budget. Then set up an appointment so you can see if they’re the right fit for you. It’s important to feel comfortable, listened to, and understood by your practitioner, from both a personal and cultural perspective. Here are some questions to ponder:

  • What kind of vibe do you get from them?
  • Have they helped people who are struggling in ways similar to you
  • Do you trust they have your best interest at heart, even when asking tough questions?
  • Look at their website and, if in person, around their waiting room and office. Do you feel like it reflects an understanding of your culture and identity?
  • Do you feel they have a clear sense of your personal and cultural background?
  • Do you feel like you can connect well on a language basis? Are they, literally, speaking your language?
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Find peer support

Group sessions and peer support can play an important role in your mental health. In group sessions or classes there is often a trained teacher or moderator and a group of people sharing their experiences, often around a particular topic that’s relevant to your mental health concern and healing. Peer support can also be online communities focused on particular mental health issues. Here are a few places to start:

NAMI Classes

Peer-led mental health programs providing free education, skills training, and support

Inspire

Condition-specific support groups offering information, community, and connection

The Mighty

Groups focused on shared interests, including health conditions, hobbies, identities, and general mental health support

Mindshift Recovery

Free weekly online addiction recovery community meetings and tools for the journey.

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